My baby is 7/ Sumo update

My youngest child, Chris turned seven last week. It's strange for me to think that my youngest child is seven. It's a cool feeling really. Jewel is almost SIXTEEN....now that's scary. Lizzy Bear is almost 11....going on 25 I assure you. I don't have a problem with getting older, but time really seems to be flying by!

I was looking at baby pictures the other day......and although I'm SO glad that we are far beyond diapers and bottles.....it does not seem that long ago. Now my younger brother and younger sister are both thinking about having a family. My brother is expecting (well, his wife is) and my sister is trying I believe. I'm happy to see them start a new chapter in their life. I worry for both of them too. I know first hand how hard it is to be a parent when you are young.
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So on to the dog. He's doing great! He knows "Sit" very well...we are working on "down" and "shake" currently. I looooooooove being a dog mommy!

Music, Music, Music!

I'm going to see my 2nd favorite singer tonight...John Mayer! This will be the 5th time I've seen him in concert. I know I know, he's a "sissy" singer....I hear it a lot. I actually get a hard time for liking him regurally. I'm not a fan of the music that is on the radio of his...too pop for my taste. He's a great guitar player though- and that's why I enjoy seeing him in concert so much. Here are 2 pics I took at a concert 4 years ago. The opening band is Ben Folds Five....I'm pretty pumped about seeing them!

One of the best parts is that I am going with my sister in law Courtney. We'll have fun I'm sure.

A New Adventure!

Well, today is the first day of the rest of my life right? I've decided to start a business.

Wedding and Event planning.....that's my new gig. I'm going to keep my full time job until this keeps me busy enough (and paid enough) to quit. I have previous experience with both large event and wedding planning. I need to get out from behind my desk and take charge of my life. I'm really excited!

http://www.myspace.com/steverweddings

or

www.steverweddings.com (website is not finished yet)

Now- everyones job is to say this "I know a GREAT wedding planner" anytime you hear the mention of an upcoming wedding- got it? No really, I'd really appreciate any referrals that come my way.

I Just Think This Is Funny

Sexy Red Heels

Red shoes can bring a touch of adventure, a hint of sassyness and make an outfit more interesting. I know, you might be thinking that red footwear is not your thing, but trust me on this - if you "go there" you'll love it!

I bought myself a new pair of sexy red heels with my birthday money (haha...I feel like a kid saying that). I have had my eyes open every time I'm at a store searching....and I found the perfect pair! (The picture is exactly what they look like, just a different brand)

So with my new red shoes I'm feeling a bit sassy- but I'm realizing once again how much it hurts to break in a new pair of shoes! I've already got the band-aids kickin....but hey- my feet look great!

WoW

I love this song....it's one of my favorite country songs....and I ran across this guy singing it. His name is Josh Turner...what a voice!

Three Decades of Candy

I'm 30.....and it's all good.

I've really been thinking about just how pleased I am with my life. I'm not sad or anything about turning 30....in fact, I welcome it. I fell like I've EARNED 30!

This day I'm reflecting on the three decades of my life.

Birth-10 years old: These years are difficult for me to remember. Although we were poor....I know that during this time, my mom was working her ass off and she always tried to give us the very best. She was strict, and sometimes a bit harsh....but she showed love by providing. Now that I'm a mother, I recognize how hard my mother tried. I remember my grandfather during this time as a STRONG man....very tall and smoking a pipe. He later became a double amputee with emphasima (sp). He's one of my best memories as a small child. I remember going to the country to spend time with my Nana and Grandpa....they treated me like I was so special. I remember taking ballet...and dressing up as a blue fairy (I think that's what I was....I looked like a smurf!). I had a step Dad that I LOVED for about 5 years. I was heartbroken when he was out of my life. I remember my life was very simple; eat, sleep, play, mind my mother....that was about it.

10-20 years old: Wow...what changes happened during this decade. I went from a child to a Mom! We moved to Vegas and that set the path for some really fun adventures and some heartbreaking situations. I'll always cherish my time in Vegas though. I met my ex-husband and father of my 2 little ladies. My lifetime path was chosen during these years. I got pregnant, broke my back, had back surgery, found a wonderful school, met my best friend, entered the work force, moved out of my moms house, graduated high school, got married, got divorced, moved to Warrensburg.... I was quite busy!

20-30 years old: This last decade I've "defined myself". I was pretty lost when I was 20...for sure. I was very superficial and head strong. I moved back to KC when I was 22, and had my son just after I turned 23. I started working in an office that same year. I moved from N. Kansas City after a bad breakup with my sons father and started life over. From the bottom....I was poor with 3 kids. I "made too much money" for welfare (which is a crock btw). I worked VERY hard to make ends meet....and I accepted charity more than once. I found God when I was 24...I developed a personal relationship with him when I was 25. I saw my little girls turn into little women and my son sprout up (finally!). I spent several years hanging out with myself and my kids and it was very good for me. I met my husband and took my time getting to know him even before we dated...we have been together almost 3 years now. I'm happier than I've ever been today, and tomorrow will be even better.

I can honestly say I'm proud to be 30.......(but I'll be using my face cream every night!!)